Have you ever looked at a movie poster and already assumed the ending without watching it? Ever watched the beginning of a murder mystery and knew who the killer was before it ended? How would you respond if your guess on how it ended was wrong? The ending you thought was going to happen just by the look of it had a plot twist that you didn’t expect. So my question to you is, why would you speak for someone else’s conclusion? The same ending you probably wanted might not be the same as someone else’s, especially if you both shared the same story.. then you both should’ve came up with an ending that you both can agree with.
You don’t kick a man when he’s down, and you don’t assume what someone else’s remedy are once you hear their symptoms. Would you judge someone at their worst? How much pain they’re really in? How much are you considering the other person and what they might be going through? Keep in mind that when you or the other person are hurting is not the best time to make logical decisions, be careful what you ask for because it’ll turn up hurt someone at the end. And if it does end up hurting them, are you willing to face them? Apologize? Ask what’s going on? Willing to help them? Or avoid them to mask the problem increasing. Either way, you’re going to have to face the problem at the end.
Maybe you pulled the brakes because there was something going on with you that you didn’t know how to face, whatever it is are you handling it properly? Or are you going to blame the other party because they put you through some kind of misery? Or do you refuse to believe that there are no such things as bumpy roads? Nobody’s life is perfect, neither is your relationship with every person that you will ever encounter in your life. Sometimes we need to take a step back and see what’s going on, rather than stopping the breaks because that could be stopping someone else’s flow. Whether you like it or not, every impact you make affects everybody else. And we never want to see you fall, because if you fall we all fall. No matter what, keep going. Help, but don’t assume someone else’s answer.
“Seasons, stormy weather
When it ends, we'll stay warm together” - LD
Written and posted on Mental Health Awareness Day.
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